bhaa, i was always hoping that Kakashi did something indecent to get the sharingan (like killing Obito and stealing his eyes in order to get revenge against someone), I can't see how Kakashi is\was an Avenger like Sasuke, besides the fact that he once had a bad personnlity similar to sasuke's...
other than that, I can't see the so called 'grusomeness' that you speak of, sure, it's nice to see someone die (unlike the shit which is chouji alive), but obito still looks normal, it's not like he's entirely covered in blood or that he's missing the right side of his body...
anyway, i'm not happy, i never am.