A girl I like

[Xollence]

Haha first of all how old are you muscle? And secondly why charge someone you like 2 bucks? lol, anyways just go for it, you won't know until you try.

[umdiddly]

supposedly, they like it when you go out of your way to talk/be nice. but there comes a point where nice becomes freaky stalker. so, you know.. play it safe, and go to school without pants on.

[Yaba]

omfg..


this is sad ask here out, what do you have to lose? nothing... I had this situation once, that I liked a girl and I didn't wanna ask here out and I kinda started talking to here, but we became friends and that's nice but not what I wanted...

so now I just ask a girl out if I like here, they say yes or no.. simple

[Immortal Boner]

Musclebuffpants,

Don't even bother asking for an answer. She hasn't said anything in a month and from that story you sounded too eager. You can't hound a girl like that and expect her to like you. It'll just end up bugging the hell out of her. And if she's pretty than you can bet your pants that there are other guys doing the same thing.

But since this is the story you tell us and details could be left out, I suggest looking for signs.

Eye contact when you guys talk?
Does she point her body towards you when you talk?
Who strikes up the conversations first?
Etc...

I'm sure you can think of a dozen more things here. Then try and see if she's the flirting type. If not then you might have something. If there's no sign at all, then move on.

As simple as that. And as DDBen points out, which is kinda sad is that younger girls dig older guys. They also like bad boys over the nice ones. Just keep that in mind. So my honest suggestion is to flirt around at that age and develop the relationships with the girls who are already close friends with you into something more. But whatever you do, DON'T do anything that'll make you look desperate. For example what you did with this girl.

[Musclebobbuffpants]

im 13....... 8th grade..... and I charged her 2 dollars because if she said that she wanted to pay me then ill just say that she didnt have to or something like that..... I can barely remember that

[DDBen]

Alright lets go over what you did wrong here.

First off you were WAY to forceful you basically didn't stop hounding her when you would have been better off helping her with her locker dropping your name and leaving you made sure every day to talk to her and didn't ask a THING about her you simply talked about a movie.

You say your interested in her personality yet um you never once asked her say a hobby or said a THING about her personality. Also the only reason you said you wanted to date her was your brother was going to ask a girl out and you didn't want to not have a gf why he does.

In general your 13 your not ready for a relationship anyway if you did date her she would get bored and move on likely within a couple weeks. Or perhaps she has a BF you asked if she knew you liked her but you never asked if she was taken.

Its pretty safe to say if someone doesn't speak to you for a month and before hand made NO attempt to go out with you or speak to you that she has NO interest in you. Basically all I can suggest is you give up and wait a few years because at this time you really have no clue about girls. Oh and as a side note when you ignor this advice and go for a backup plan to be used and walked on the entire time . 13 year old girls go for older guys because they assume no one there age is mature enough or worth there time and they are most likely right. Of course by 16 enough guys will have screwed them over that they might have a clue but its relatively unlikely. She would not have said yes a month ago had you asked her and she certainly won't know if you really cared you wouldn't even have a backup in mind .

[Baka-chan]

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that explains it

[pringles]

Hello there,

I don&#39;t know if it will be helpful to you...but as a last resort... and if you don&#39;t like how some of the ppl here suggesting that you just forget about her...I suggest you just do it. Ask her out...if you are not confident to do it alone, then, do it with a group. This way you don&#39;t bear all the responsibilities of entertaining her.

Why I am suggesting that you do it, is for you to have a sense of closure...Meaning you don&#39;t have to spend the rest of your life/time wondering &quot;what if&quot;. Even if it doesn&#39;t end the way you like it...you&#39;ll be able to accept it more. Bec. you gave it your best shot. Or at least you gave it a chance. Not just give up on it ...due to the many theories that you get here.

Anyway, in the end the ans. will depend on you. Just be responsible to yourself. If you can&#39;t help but feel like you want to go for it (I sense that you do)...then, just do it...

No regrets&#33;

[Assassin]

lol ya......dude, ur still young.....dont worry about relationships or anyhting rite now. atleast wait till hiskool, cuz theres alot more variety (and by that i mean lots of diff types of girls)

but as far as this goes, uve pretty much done all u can. the onyl thing i dont get is y she gave u her locker combo :S.......meh, women

what i would suggest is start talking to her again, but as a friend. try to get to know her friends, and hang out with her and stuff......if, in a few months time u still have the hots for her, ask her out again. but most likely, by then u&#39;ll have found someone else.


ps: trying to get her just cuz ur bro has a gf is pretty low (no offense). make sure u liek the girl before u go out with her.....and not just like her body

[Musclebobbuffpants]

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my brother doesnt have the girl friend yet, he just likes her and he might ask her out. I just wanna get a gf because if my brother has one too, it will be a good suprise for my dad when he comes back from saudi arabia. and ive liked her since last year (2003) and I think it was like september. and she does do eye contact and she does point her body towards mine when we talk and I am the one who has to start the conversation. so I think that is a sign that she doesnt like me

[Darkflare]

so..you are saying that you two actually talk now? or are you referring to a long time ago when you talked?

[Musclebobbuffpants]

unfortunitly, a long time ago when we talked

I was thinking of asking her something, but it seems a little bit too harsh........ like ask her if she took advantage of me just because i liked her and was nice to her and gave her stuff..........

[Assassin]

lol, whatever u do, DO NOT ask her that.......it&#39;ll make u sound like a little cry baby, and at the same time destroy any chance what so ever u might have had with her.

like i said, start talking again, but try to steer clear of risky ground......meaning dont let her know u still like her. be nice, be friendly, and most of all be mature. also, dont do anyhting that&#39;ll make u look desperate......for example, if u want to give her another movie or something, mention it casually rather then jsut sayin &quot;do u want it?&quot;. (ie: ask if she&#39;s seen [insert movie name].....if she hasn&#39;t tell her to watch it cuz its realy good or whatever, and tell her *IF* she wants, she can borrow it from u) and once u&#39;ve asked, dont press the matter any further.

[Rock Lee]

Honest to god man, she was interested in you but is no longer. You have one option just flat out ask her if she says no or uses one of those crappy lines like &quot;Can we jsut be friends&quot; respond with &quot;No, i&#39;ve got plenty of those. Do you have a sister?&quot; . Seriously though if you waste time with women they go away you have to jump on any chance you get. You waited to long and now shes no longer interested in you. Women are crazy and fickeled like that. Forget her and move on. We&#39;ve all had that one that got away type thing and you live through it.

[Musclebobbuffpants]

I have decided to just ask her out, because if she saids no, I wont be hurt that much. and if she saids no i can ask someone else out that I KINDA like

[Vagabond]

Stand outside her house and hold up a boombox playing peter gabriel music.............

Edit: wrong singer

[p3psi]

hey forget her, you will always have this thread to go to http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/index.php?showtopic=3

If you still have that urge in your pants for her, i suggest you picture her laughing behind your back, telling her friends on how she played some dork that was drooling all over her. She probally already did that. well, at least she&#39;s talking about you.

I suggest you do something crazy to get back at her: dont try to make out with her sister, but her brother&#33; that would really make things akward for her at the dinner table.

[umdiddly]

you need to get reaquainted with your right hand, my friend.
leave the girl stuff boy stuff for post-puberty.

[umdiddly]

i had dreams like that... except instead of a school, i was in a giant stadium... and my pants were down.
... or something to that effect.. i dunno, i didnt get it all right because it was a dream




... i think there was some whipped cream involved too.

[Xollence]

Good thing about my nightmares is that I only remember them the first 10 seconds I wake up.