Quote Originally Posted by Buffalobiian View Post
Keeping it all a secret and also keeping Roxy out of the house makes it seem like some sort of shameful secret, which it shouldn't be if you're going to marry her because you love her. It also gives off a vibe that 1st wife gets preferential treatment/resources etc. If you're to embrace polygamy, this feels wrong.
It IS a shameful secret in that situation LOL.