Can it? The "thing" he want to solve is making his friends not dead anymore.
The only way he's currently aware of doing that is becoming a Demon Lord. And that requires 10k souls.
Could he solve the ATTACK in a different way? Yes. But he can't solve the dead friends any other way.
...you know most countries in our world don't have nukes, right? Countries that continue to exist despite not having them?
No, it's an act of justice. He is defending his people and retaliating for an earlier attack. Could he resolve this peacefully? Probably. But these attackers don't DESERVE a peaceful resolution.
Yes?