I assume it was, shinta, no worries.
You on the other hand need to lighten up :P
I have no interest in underage girls, 16 is fine with me ;D
Anyway, the point is, that meeting with the mother never happened. Also, you´d be an idiot if you only judged a guy after his outter appearance in terms of "risk" for your daughter. I have serious doubts that you´d be as ok with this situation as you are with it in anime.