Agree with you and Sapphire about pretty much everything concerning this movie. What a mess of a movie and a complete disappointment.
Some stuff that stuck in my mind as particularly bad:
Zod was bred and trained to be a warrior yet Jor-el the scientist kicked his ass in hand-to-hand combat.
Calling him "Cal" was the most obnoxious shit in a movie since Darth Vader was called "Ani".
I also thought it was ridiculous how quickly Zod and his men adapted to their new powers.
This was basically a natural disaster movie and sucked as bad as all of those.
This movie focused on the weirdest little crap and wasted so much time on that crap that could have been used on character development or relationships. I'm still stunned that Zack Snyder was involved in this mess. Wasn't surprised to see Nolan was involved though.