Ah yeah I love the known fact that parental love towards a child is universal, and ofcourse alien parents would not behave any differently from loving human parents. Not mocking you specifically just the general idea that the utopian alien society must be just like ours. You are right though, and in some origin stories his parents went so far as to pick the Kent's specifically. Smallville went even further and said that Jor-El had come to earth before as part of some Krytonian coming of age ceremony or rite of passage and had met the Kents when they were younger.

I see you are of the opinion that upbringing is everything, they covered that in Red Son. I'm not really big on the whole indoctrination thing.