All the talk about sex in those posts + Henry Cavill = wet Sapphy. I'll admit, and no romo, but Cavill is a good looking dude. I don't think Amy Adams quite fits as Lois Lane, though Margot Kidder wasn't particularly hot whereas Reeves was also a manly man and a good looking dude.
I never watched Smallville so I'm happy to see them explore Clark as a human. From the trailers, I don't think he's trying to fit in so much as trying to understand his origins and purpose. As a kid he tries, but as a man he seems to be a loner trying to stay under the radar. It kind of feels like "I am Number 4" except Clark is smarter about hiding his abilities until someone is in grave peril.
The thing with making Superman too super is that he's then an automaton and not a person. Plus if he's fighting enemies as strong as him, he can't just shrug off their attacks, he will feel the pain and it will be a struggle to beat them.
“For God will not permit that we shall know what is to come... those who by some sorcery or by some dream might come to pierce the veil that lies so darkly over all that is before them may serve by just that vision to cause that God should wrench the world from its heading and set it upon another course altogether and then where stands the sorcerer? Where the dreamer and his dream?”