it's emerging as a common theme in Naruto...
Neji: Actually, your dad loved the main family
Sai: Actually, you loved your brother.
Sasuke: Actually, your brother loves you and did everything for the village.
Naruto: Actually, you've got parents and they really loved you.
Gaara: Actually, your mom loved you, and so did your uncle.


maybe if the ninja parents were better parents we wouldn't have so many dead ninjas to resurrect.

incidentally, this retcon proves gaara's entire life philosophy to be wrong and the process he went through as invalid. sucks to be him.