What I am saying is that I believe half of what you said is BS and that there are a lot of other guys other there that are superficial (attracted to women only because of looks). Commercials are a media that demonstrates what people are generally attracted too (they have done studies, and spent a lot of money to be certain of this) other media have also done the same not to mention there are documentaries. You are not "alone" in being superficially attracted to someone.
Also I don't believe you are someone with such outstanding moral virtues that would be this bother with weather or not it is right or wrong to like someone only because of certain bodily features.
Anyways please excuse my intrusion into your self help thread.
p.s. If you are attracted to her for other reasons besides physical (i.e. her personality) then it is not just being superficial, now is it.
Have fun.