Bullying

[KrayZ33]

he would change if you ignore what he says and once you get closer to him you could start to ask him... maybe this will have an effect.

at least thats what happened when i talked to the nerd of our class :P well, he's able to talk to me without annoying me.. i don't know what exactly changed. the guy i m talking about was "suuuuper-shy".. if you talked to him the first thing he did was lowering his head and it was impossible to hear what he has to say because his voice was like a whisper..

other people of my class bullied him a bit because of that (not really bullying but more ignoring)... i don't know why but me and one of my friends didn't do it, but the funny thing was that he was even weirder to the people who CARED about him.. as soon as we said something against him and his attitude he was like his world was going upside down.. after a while my friend got annoyed by this and stopped caring for him and i was the only one left and now over the years he turned out to be somehow normal (well still a little fucked up but thats because of his parents, i m pretty sure it is... a 16 years old boy wasn't allowed to watch TV during the week lol.. and now with 18 i think he still isn't allowed to watch TV or play PC :/)

i think it turned out this way when i found out that he likes animes.. (i can't remember how i found that out though) i think this was the first time that someone talked with him about a subject HE likes and the OTHER person likes... and then everything started to change (slowly)...

what i want to say is that i believe no one is screwed for life..you just have to break through the shell that surrounds them ^^ (ah thats sounds lovely) but the problem is, that most people don't care enough to do that because its exhausting

edit: i just remembered what he did that everyone bullied him, when he was a bit younger he was stalking a girl (oh my gawd)... the girl said to him that she does not really like him (or more hate him), but he kept talking to her and so on...
he simply couldn't understand why, i guess he felt betrayed or so..

well the girl wanted to involve the police etc and thats when the guy i m talking about apoligized to her with a letter and explained to her that he's very sorry, in the letter was written that he never had a girlfriend before and all the guys he sees and know do have one and so on... you know i can't write it the way it was explained to me but that made me somehow very sad.. it simply shows how fucked up he was in his head.

btw even though he turned out to be a more "normal" guy through the years he still has a problem with girls ^^ i think he needs to get laid or so :P