well, i just got rejected by this girl i like. i told her how i felt and she told me she didn't like me in that way (oh, how i loathe that phrase). pretty bummed out rite now...this is probably the only girl i've really cared about in like 5 years....the type of person i could see myself with 10 years down the road. But hey, atleast she thinks im a really super awesome guy.....>_>.
guess for now life remains a bitch. just thought i'd let you all know.
Do you know what you did wrong? Try to use this as a learning experience.
Maybe you came on too strong, or didn't come on strong enough at the start of it and quickly fell into the "friend zone".
<@Terra> he told me this, "man actually meeting terra is so fucking big", and he started crying. Then he bought me hot dogs
LOL... those two together Assassin... that sucks.Originally Posted by Assassin
Translation: I don't mind hanging out with you, but i'd never date you.
And if you've only started talking for a few days, and you told her how you "feel"... you might need to work on that? But hey, you're my elder, what do I know
[21:48] * DO furiously masturbates to #gotwoot
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Goddamn you people fail.
You don't see something wrong with this. Are all you people that pathetic.
Anyway despite what you want or think not everything works out the way you want it to. I give you props for being honest and up front thats the way to go but dude you only just starting talking to her a few days ago. What the hell are you thinking. I could try to give you advice but for it to work I would have to know the two of you personally and since I don't it would probably be futile.
Every girl is different you just have to find out what works, but the first thing you gotta do is figure out whether this girl is worth it or not. Honestly if not looking like George Clooney is the problem then you shouldn't even bother pursuing her because there is nothing there. You're an intelligent guy you should be able to figure this out, its just a game atleast for now.
Dreaming impossible dreams.
Sapphire is awesome!
Yeah, Abdula said it all before I could. You screwed up kinda bad.
If you only became friends with her a few days ago, then "telling her your feelings" was definitely the wrong move. Girls like guys to be up-front and confident, but think it's creepy when you come on too quickly and openly. Joker-kun's translation is pretty accurate.
It's like how girls see someone getting flowers from a secret admirer in romantic movies, but when it actually happens to them in real life, they're one odd glance away from calling the police.
What you need to remember is that it's your job to attract her, not for you to suddenly become the luckiest guy and have her reciprocate strong feelings after only a week of knowing her. That's unrealistic, and probably set of warning signals of obsessive behavior. Your goal is to be the guy she wants to be with. Get to know her, let her know the interesting and intelligent person that you are. If there's a connection, then run with it. If not, then let it go and move on.
Shut the fuck up. I hate all the "I'm so much better than the rest of you" bullshit that new members come to this forum with. Thanks for indicting the rest of us because of Assassin's screw up, sparky. I didn't realize we were such pathetic losers. No really. Thank you.
Edit for below: Oh Jesus Fuck, it's a fact!! A FACT! I better get my ass out of my room and join you in the darkness Abdula before my life starts failing any harder!!!
Last edited by XanBcoo; Mon, 02-25-2008 at 11:58 PM.
<@Terra> he told me this, "man actually meeting terra is so fucking big", and he started crying. Then he bought me hot dogs
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