Terra defeats your privacy part 302: The Relationship (& luv) Thread

[SK]

Here's something I could use helping with.

I'm still trying for the girl I mentioned about 2 months ago. I added her on Facebook, but all I can really do is talk through that (which I have been doing) since I'm in England at the moment. But I'm thinking of asking for her number when I get back. Or maybe asking if she wants to meet up on campus sometime or go eat lunch or something. Basically anything to let her know I'm interested.

Yes, do let her no you're interested.

Meanwhile, SK's love life feels like shit.

[Hikyuu]

There was this girl I was hanging out a lot with from The Satanic Mechanics ( It is a rocky horror picture show group for UMD ( fuck you guys (preemptively ;D I'm already a fag .. ) -- ANYWAYS.. I had been hanging out with her quite a bit at group even ts and walked with her places and talk on aim a lot cheering her up through all her bf issues and whatnot.. the last show party for the season I confessed how I felt.. and she said she wasn't over her ex.. but she kinda felt For me too. Anyway she moved back to FL for the summer.. and I wont be at UMD in the fall say yay I fucked that up by waiting so long to make my move.

[Iridani]

Yeah waiting too long can make things difficult. But also knowing when to say something is a challenge. If you wait even a few minutes too long sometimes, you could be regretting it a lot longer than that few minutes of waiting.

@SK... well... stop making it feel that way and kick it into high gear! :P Don't make me hug you into it... you won't want that.

[masamuneehs]

Hikyuu, i think part of the problem is that you tried to 'put yourself next in the boy friend queue'. I've found that comforting people over a break-up is a sure fire way to NOT get with them, unless your 'comforting' involves being intimate... alot of people screw this one up, as it's natural (and good) to try to comfort someone you care about...

Xan - i'd wait to get back face-to-face. Nothing is as unimpressive as attempts to initiate a relationship or revealing your feelings over technology communication (a girl i know got asked out by a guy over facebook the other day, and she ws really put off by it). Stay in touch, but wait until you see her again, then tell her how you feel. It'd be sweet to mention how you've thought about her while you were gone, but don't overplay that, or it sounds creepy.
Getting her number online is fine though, it'll probably clue her in to how you feel, but don't make that preemptory setup move until you're almost in place to make the real one.

[darkshadow]

First an older woman and now a Hispanic hottie.

Christ, masa. Stop living my dreams and complaining about them
.....

hahahha, damn you just gave me a real good laugh.
I can't say more though, might crush your dreams ;o

[Terracosmo]

Short update on my "love" life since last time (half a year ago?):

- Had another girlfriend
- Slept with 5 additional women
- Have a new girlfriend "in progress" now, I know that she wants me but it depends a little on if I want to handle yet another relationship at this point. But then again she is part-hispanic (always liked that in a woman actually despite my pale preferences) and at the same time has dyed hair and piercings. She is incredibly pretty and nice. Also she loves X Japan and my band which are always positive points. At any rate she's gonna live her next weekend and then we'll see how it goes...

Well, not like anyone cares what I do really but I'm bored so...

[Hikyuu]

You playa you.. I thought that was your last week agenda.. I'm surprised it is spread out over half a year

[Terracosmo]

I'd like to say that's because I party less now due to work and extreme amounts of band practice, but it's probably just me getting old

[RyougaZell]

*suddendly feels depressed*

err... yeah...

[rockmanj]

I'm Working on a project or, two, but i'm a bit recalitrant about things, due to some wang surgery i had (due to an accident). I dont know if there's a way to explain it to her...Eh..maybe thats TMI??

[SK]

News. Well me and the girl I was with almost my entire freshman year have had our first form of communication since she found out I was transferring. Basically she got really pissed because we made out schedules to be exactly the same, made plans, all kinds of things, and I transferred schools. However, she knew the entire time I would transfer if I got accepted to the school. Anyway she sent me a message on Facebook admitting she had over reacted big time and saying she wanted me to come visit her and stuff like that.

[TruthofMistake]

News. Well me and the girl I was with almost my entire freshman year have had our first form of communication since she found out I was transferring. Basically she got really pissed because we made out schedules to be exactly the same, made plans, all kinds of things, and I transferred schools. However, she knew the entire time I would transfer if I got accepted to the school. Anyway she sent me a message on Facebook admitting she had over reacted big time and saying she wanted me to come visit her and stuff like that.

I'd recommend you don't but I really have no idea where you stand on this and my patience for women who blow up over nothing has pretty much died in the last few weeks. I really don't see that ending well though. How far away are you?

[Iridani]

Let's see what I have to contribute to this thread if anything...

Dealt with some consistent rejection from someone... met someone else through that guy... and now I'm happy. The end :P How's that? lol

[TruthofMistake]

I imagine that will be one of the few happy endings, not counting the manwhore terra, that we hear about in this thread. Kudos to you!

[rockmanj]

Geez...i really need to improve my 'closing' abilities; i get out, get to the point where its time to go, then the alcohol hits me :-\.

[Iridani]

I imagine that will be one of the few happy endings, not counting the manwhore terra, that we hear about in this thread. Kudos to you!

Lol sweet... I get kudos for being happy. I'll be alone for a while due to things but meh, that's fine with me.

[Hikyuu]

Things like being away in the Cannuckian army? . Don't worry Iri... Gotwoot will keep you company.

[Iridani]

... Depending on the kind of company you mean :P I'll be around though of course to continue harassing you. Wouldn't be the same!

[Hikyuu]

And I wont let you get away masquerading as a female when we all know your an FBI agent

[Iridani]

Oh yeah... I'm SO undercover... playing with my handcuffs... waiting for the time to pounce. :P Not that that has any relevence... Anyways... get talky talking about the lurve lives!