Hey, being councious about your hair is not a bad thing. In fact, the hair defines 75% or so of your attractivity! Have you never wondered why all the people with styled hair get the most action? Even people with ugly builds can attain success with a sexy haircut. Hair FTW!
Also I find it cool how many of you want your lives to be miserable (i.e finding a partner). Then again that might sound funny coming from me since I'm in a relationship but still I'M IN THE KNOWWW!!!