Originally posted by: Kraco
Originally posted by: Ero-Fan
And using past abuse as an excuse is just that, an excuse. Real life example: Just because someone was physically abused by their father doesn't make it right to abuse a kid if they have one. But by your explanation, I guess its ok.
Oh, is that so? And exactly where in my post did I say it's OK? You can go and check statistics: Abused people are more likely to abuse their own children. I'm sure you are not denying that, are you? What I said is that's it's statistically to be expected. And if you want to close your eyes and say it's not so, it can't be so, it mustn't be so, then you are back on your high horse.
People who have a long history of violence in every form are more likely to see violence as a fitting means for every little problem. It would be naive to deny that. You have to accept that, or you can't even do anything about it.