Originally posted by: LobsterMagnet
Didn't any of you see the most recent Star Wars? Don't go for revenge. Honestly getting revenge on the girl or on any other girl will not bring about any form of satisfaction. It will just make you feel hollow and empty on the inside and futher expand on already growing emotional void. Rebound relationships arn't much better since they only reinforce the idea that a relationship is nothing more then then an expendable commodity. One thing I really hate about the whole dating scene is how relationships are seen are treated as neccesary accessories to one's personal lifestyle. You have to listen to the right music, you have to go to the right parties, and you have to have a girlfriend/boyfriend. One thing I hate about contemporary society/ media is how relatiohships are treated as an tradeable commodity. There is very little intimacy, a boyfriend/girlfriend is something one MUST have if one is considered to be a healthy fully functioning member of society.
umm have you HAD a girlfriend, when your with her nothing else really matters, for both of you. all the bullshit you just spoke of flies out the window. the whole thing with the rebound girls is to show yourself that you can live without your ex, something which i dont really like to do that much cos i dun wanna hurt someone else just to get over my own pain, but if you can find someone else like you, or someone not really looking for a real relationship you can be eachothers inbetween people, because if theres one thing ive learnt over the years its that no one likes to be alone


edit to below: haha thats gold