A girl I like

[Musclebobbuffpants]

im just bored, ive posted this on another forum a long time ago but im just bored right now......

I always thought of this girl as cute/pretty/hot, but I never knew her name and I never relly cared either and I couldnt find her name out that easily because she is in none of my classes......... the monday before halloween I see that her locker is stuck, so I go to help her..... I get the locker open and I ask her if she has anything for me........ so she gives me some gum and then next passing period( this is 5 minutes after every class so we have time to get to class) I ask her for some more gum, she saids that she doesnt have any, so I hold her locker open so she cant close it....... then she gave me gum .... the passing period before our last class I ask her what her name is she tells me and im just sitting there trying to find out what her combination to her lock is....... she cant get it open so I have to do it for her, and then when we were about to go home, I asked her why she gave me her combination and how she could trust me and stuff and she didnt even knw my name then....... I ask if she wanted to knw my name and she said that she didnt care, so I tell her and then I leave to go home........ nothing relly much happened the few days after that....... on friday I opened her locker for her without saying anything, her locker is stuck so I walk over there and punch the locker then I open it for her and then I left...... but she still said thank you though ....... then on monday I asked her if she had a computer and she said yea and I showed her my texas chainsaw massacre cd and she wanted it..... and I said that I would make her a copy the next day and I said that I would charge her 2 dollars and she said no thanks........ so then a few hours later I said that I could let her borrow the cd an]d she could give it back the next day..... and she said that she couldnt becuase she couldnt take it home or something..... so I said that she could have it she said thank you..... again...... and the next day she wasnt there at school so on wednesday I asked her if she watched the movie yet and she said no and I said that I also had scary movie 3 and that she could borrow that too, I cant remember what she said after that, I think she said like ok mabe later or something...... so a few hours later I ask if she wanted to borrow scary movie 3 and she said she would borrow it tomarow..... and I also told her that I needed the texas chainsaw massacre back because my friend wanted to borrow it and I couldnt make him a copy because I didnt have my own copy.... so I told her to watch it that night and then give it to me the next day.... so the next day (thursday) I ask if she had my cd and she gave it to me then I gave her scary movie 3..... and then a few hours later I asked her if she liked the texas chainsaw massacre and she said yea and that she needed to get to class and then I said ok bye....... so then the next day (friday) I asked her if she watched scary movie 3 and she said ya and I asked if she had it with her and she said that she didnt and she would give it to me on monday and I say ok and I showed her the texas chainsaw massacre cd so that I could give it to her and she told me to hold on so she could open her locker...... then she opened her locker and then I give the cd to her and then I pause for about 3 seconds and ask her if she could keep a secret and she said what is it? and I said, u know I like you,right? and she said ya..... and this was at the end of the day of friday so then I said bye..... im glad that I got that off my chest


alright there ya go...... and I havent talked to her in like a month and i dont know how to talk to her http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_jumpon.gif (this last statement wasnt on narutoforums.net)

[Vattha]

Dude I don't think she sweatin yo pimp juice

[Musclebobbuffpants]

what do u mean by that? http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/blink.gif

[Vattha]

Lol, it was a joke. Anyway, unless she is really shy, I don't think there is much more you can do.

[Musclebobbuffpants]

if I asked her out a long time ago she probably would have said yes...... but since i havent talked to her in so long she will probably say no. but my brother might ask someone out soon so that makes me wanna ask her out so ill have a gf too http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_laughbounce.gif

[Vagabond]

Invite her to a movie that always seems to work for me. Or if your smart and she's dumb then offer to help her with homework. I dunno i've always had the luxury of having a lot of friends that are girls around me so i've never really had any trouble getting a date.

[p3psi]

awwwwwwwwwww, how cUTE http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/rolleyes.gif

Sounds like honey bees, song birds and sexual harassment’s in the air!

leave her alone, she's not the one for you http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_laughbounce.gif

[Musclebobbuffpants]

JUST BECAUSE I LOOK AT HER BOOBS AND ASS SOMETIMES DOESNT MEAN IM SEXUALLY HARRASING HER!!!!!!! http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_laughbounce.gif

I can probably ask her to the movies. I cant promise u ill try, but ill try to try ~~Bart Simpson~~ http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_w00t1.gif

[joker-kun]

http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/wink.gif ummm why do we care.....grow some balls and and ask http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/tongue.gif

[Musclebobbuffpants]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (VagabondLBD @ Jan 12 2004, 06:49 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Invite her to a movie that always seems to work for me. </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
how exactly do i invite her to the movies? what do i say exactly...... and yes im a newb at this stuff, usually they ask me out http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/ph34r.gif

[Legendary Nin]

She&#39;s not into you.

She try&#39;s to blow you off,but you keep bothering her.So she takes the cd or what you offer so you leave.If you invite her somewhere,she&#39;ll just go for 2 reasons

1.To shut you up
2.Take you for what your worth.

In the end,your being used,and are nothing to her.

[Musclebobbuffpants]

I got that alot on naruto forums.net http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/dry.gif

[p3psi]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Legendary Nin @ Jan 12 2004, 07:48 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> She&#39;s not into you.

She try&#39;s to blow you off,but you keep bothering her.So she takes the cd or what you offer so you leave.If you invite her somewhere,she&#39;ll just go for 2 reasons

1.To shut you up
2.Take you for what your worth.

In the end,your being used,and are nothing to her. </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
this man knows what he&#39;s talking about&#33;

probally from experience, me too buddy, me too http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_laughbounce.gif

Girls try to be nice and not try to hurt a guy thats trying to pick them up.

Ask her for her phone number, she probally wont say no because you&#39;ll cry, but she doesnt really want to talk to you.

[Legendary Nin]

It&#39;s the truth.As tough as it is,don&#39;t make the mistake of investing into a falling market.Invest your money into someone that&#39;s going to be worth it.All your feeling is lust,and lust+a empty wallet is what you&#39;ll be left with.Sometimes you have to be aggressive and go for it because some are shy and wait.You&#39;ve done that already,you&#39;ve made all the moves more than once,and she didn&#39;t return anything.You told her you were interested and provide oppertunity.Its been a month,if she was interested,you would have heard.

[Baka-chan]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Legendary Nin @ Jan 12 2004, 07:48 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> She&#39;s not into you.

She try&#39;s to blow you off,but you keep bothering her.So she takes the cd or what you offer so you leave.If you invite her somewhere,she&#39;ll just go for 2 reasons

1.To shut you up
2.Take you for what your worth.

In the end,your being used,and are nothing to her. </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
well said...

it&#39;s true though, especially if she hasn&#39;t tried to talk to you at all for the past month or whatever you said.

[Vagabond]

hm i try to be an optimist http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/dry.gif

Just ask her if she wants to go to a movie with you and your friend or something. Don&#39;t try to make it a date or anything, just a chance to hang out. Get to know her first and then ask her out on a real date. From what i&#39;ve read she doesn&#39;t really know you. If you were to ask her out now she would feel awkward. Just become her friend and then move on from there. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/smile.gif

[hiddenpookie]

hmmmm.... this not a good place to talk about that stuff try talking to real friends..like joker-kun said grow some balls..but u cant expect her to just like like you it takes time...but u talked to her in like what november..october and its january and she hasnt said a word .0_0 veri weird shes not the one

[Immortal Boner]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (VagabondLBD @ Jan 12 2004, 09:46 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> hm i try to be an optimist http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/dry.gif

Just ask her if she wants to go to a movie with you and your friend or something. Don&#39;t try to make it a date or anything, just a chance to hang out. Get to know her first and then ask her out on a real date. From what i&#39;ve read she doesn&#39;t really know you. If you were to ask her out now she would feel awkward. Just become her friend and then move on from there. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/smile.gif </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
Despite the good intent of your optimism, I think your setting him up to be screwed over. The girl will most likely sense what he&#39;s doing, and at worse take advantage of him. Remember he already showed his cards when he told her that he liked her.


Legendary Nin hits the nail on the head. The girl isn&#39;t into you Musclebuffpants (from the way you describe it.) Invest your time on other girls because at best, your just another number on her list of guys trying to dig into her panties. Though I&#39;ll add one more thing to his suggestion. Even if you do find the right one (as in love and not just sex), always plan ahead and prepare yourself for a possible break-up. Trust me, nothing&#39;s worse than putting all your energy and time building up a relationship for years only to have her change, get bored, and bang one of your friends.

lol not saying that it will happen but always prepare for the worse. Such as keeping a couple of girls on the side-lines who are a bit close who you can use as a backup in case shit happens.

Happy hunting.

[Musclebobbuffpants]

I dont even relly want her for sex. I mostly just like her for her personality. and i have a few back up chicks by the way that will probably say yes. so ill try to just talk to her alot and stuff then ask her out mabe 2 or 3 weeks later http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/unsure.gif

[p3psi]

ask her if she wants to do a three way with her mom, that always make them HAWT&#33;
Mom and daughter tag-team, bam&#33;

[Xollence]

Haha first of all how old are you muscle? And secondly why charge someone you like 2 bucks? lol, anyways just go for it, you won&#39;t know until you try.

[umdiddly]

supposedly, they like it when you go out of your way to talk/be nice. but there comes a point where nice becomes freaky stalker. so, you know.. play it safe, and go to school without pants on.

[Yaba]

omfg..


this is sad http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif ask here out, what do you have to lose? nothing... I had this situation once, that I liked a girl and I didn&#39;t wanna ask here out and I kinda started talking to here, but we became friends and that&#39;s nice http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/laugh.gif but not what I wanted...

so now I just ask a girl out if I like here, they say yes or no.. simple http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/smile.gif

[Immortal Boner]

Musclebuffpants,

Don&#39;t even bother asking for an answer. She hasn&#39;t said anything in a month and from that story you sounded too eager. You can&#39;t hound a girl like that and expect her to like you. It&#39;ll just end up bugging the hell out of her. And if she&#39;s pretty than you can bet your pants that there are other guys doing the same thing.

But since this is the story you tell us and details could be left out, I suggest looking for signs.

Eye contact when you guys talk?
Does she point her body towards you when you talk?
Who strikes up the conversations first?
Etc...

I&#39;m sure you can think of a dozen more things here. Then try and see if she&#39;s the flirting type. If not then you might have something. If there&#39;s no sign at all, then move on.

As simple as that. And as DDBen points out, which is kinda sad is that younger girls dig older guys. They also like bad boys over the nice ones. Just keep that in mind. So my honest suggestion is to flirt around at that age and develop the relationships with the girls who are already close friends with you into something more. But whatever you do, DON&#39;T do anything that&#39;ll make you look desperate. For example what you did with this girl.

[Musclebobbuffpants]

im 13....... 8th grade..... and I charged her 2 dollars because if she said that she wanted to pay me then ill just say that she didnt have to or something like that..... I can barely remember that

[DDBen]

Alright lets go over what you did wrong here.

First off you were WAY to forceful you basically didn&#39;t stop hounding her when you would have been better off helping her with her locker dropping your name and leaving you made sure every day to talk to her and didn&#39;t ask a THING about her you simply talked about a movie.

You say your interested in her personality yet um you never once asked her say a hobby or said a THING about her personality. Also the only reason you said you wanted to date her was your brother was going to ask a girl out and you didn&#39;t want to not have a gf why he does.

In general your 13 your not ready for a relationship anyway if you did date her she would get bored and move on likely within a couple weeks. Or perhaps she has a BF you asked if she knew you liked her but you never asked if she was taken.

Its pretty safe to say if someone doesn&#39;t speak to you for a month and before hand made NO attempt to go out with you or speak to you that she has NO interest in you. Basically all I can suggest is you give up and wait a few years because at this time you really have no clue about girls. Oh and as a side note when you ignor this advice and go for a backup plan to be used and walked on the entire time http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/wink.gif. 13 year old girls go for older guys because they assume no one there age is mature enough or worth there time and they are most likely right. Of course by 16 enough guys will have screwed them over that they might have a clue but its relatively unlikely. She would not have said yes a month ago had you asked her and she certainly won&#39;t know if you really cared you wouldn&#39;t even have a backup in mind http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/wink.gif.

[Baka-chan]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Musclebobbuffpants @ Jan 13 2004, 08:30 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> im 13....... 8th grade..... and I charged her 2 dollars because if she said that she wanted to pay me then ill just say that she didnt have to or something like that..... I can barely remember that </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
that explains it http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_laughbounce2.gif

[pringles]

Hello there,

I don&#39;t know if it will be helpful to you...but as a last resort... and if you don&#39;t like how some of the ppl here suggesting that you just forget about her...I suggest you just do it. Ask her out...if you are not confident to do it alone, then, do it with a group. This way you don&#39;t bear all the responsibilities of entertaining her.

Why I am suggesting that you do it, is for you to have a sense of closure...Meaning you don&#39;t have to spend the rest of your life/time wondering &quot;what if&quot;. Even if it doesn&#39;t end the way you like it...you&#39;ll be able to accept it more. Bec. you gave it your best shot. Or at least you gave it a chance. Not just give up on it ...due to the many theories that you get here.

Anyway, in the end the ans. will depend on you. Just be responsible to yourself. If you can&#39;t help but feel like you want to go for it (I sense that you do)...then, just do it...

No regrets&#33;

[Assassin]

lol ya......dude, ur still young.....dont worry about relationships or anyhting rite now. atleast wait till hiskool, cuz theres alot more variety (and by that i mean lots of diff types of girls)

but as far as this goes, uve pretty much done all u can. the onyl thing i dont get is y she gave u her locker combo :S.......meh, women http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/sleep.gif

what i would suggest is start talking to her again, but as a friend. try to get to know her friends, and hang out with her and stuff......if, in a few months time u still have the hots for her, ask her out again. but most likely, by then u&#39;ll have found someone else.


ps: trying to get her just cuz ur bro has a gf is pretty low (no offense). make sure u liek the girl before u go out with her.....and not just like her body

[Musclebobbuffpants]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Assassin @ Jan 14 2004, 05:53 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> ps: trying to get her just cuz ur bro has a gf is pretty low (no offense). make sure u liek the girl before u go out with her.....and not just like her body </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
my brother doesnt have the girl friend yet, he just likes her and he might ask her out. I just wanna get a gf because if my brother has one too, it will be a good suprise for my dad when he comes back from saudi arabia. and ive liked her since last year (2003) and I think it was like september. and she does do eye contact and she does point her body towards mine when we talk and I am the one who has to start the conversation. so I think that is a sign that she doesnt like me

[Darkflare]

so..you are saying that you two actually talk now? or are you referring to a long time ago when you talked?

[Musclebobbuffpants]

unfortunitly, a long time ago when we talked http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/sad.gif

I was thinking of asking her something, but it seems a little bit too harsh........ like ask her if she took advantage of me just because i liked her and was nice to her and gave her stuff..........

[Assassin]

lol, whatever u do, DO NOT ask her that.......it&#39;ll make u sound like a little cry baby, and at the same time destroy any chance what so ever u might have had with her.

like i said, start talking again, but try to steer clear of risky ground......meaning dont let her know u still like her. be nice, be friendly, and most of all be mature. also, dont do anyhting that&#39;ll make u look desperate......for example, if u want to give her another movie or something, mention it casually rather then jsut sayin &quot;do u want it?&quot;. (ie: ask if she&#39;s seen [insert movie name].....if she hasn&#39;t tell her to watch it cuz its realy good or whatever, and tell her *IF* she wants, she can borrow it from u) and once u&#39;ve asked, dont press the matter any further.

[Rock Lee]

Honest to god man, she was interested in you but is no longer. You have one option just flat out ask her if she says no or uses one of those crappy lines like &quot;Can we jsut be friends&quot; respond with &quot;No, i&#39;ve got plenty of those. Do you have a sister?&quot; . Seriously though if you waste time with women they go away you have to jump on any chance you get. You waited to long and now shes no longer interested in you. Women are crazy and fickeled like that. Forget her and move on. We&#39;ve all had that one that got away type thing and you live through it.

[Musclebobbuffpants]

I have decided to just ask her out, because if she saids no, I wont be hurt that much. and if she saids no i can ask someone else out that I KINDA like http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_laughbounce2.gif

[Vagabond]

Stand outside her house and hold up a boombox playing peter gabriel music............. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/ph34r.gif

Edit: wrong singer

[p3psi]

hey forget her, you will always have this thread to go to http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/index.php?showtopic=3 ('http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/index.php?showtopic=3')

If you still have that urge in your pants for her, i suggest you picture her laughing behind your back, telling her friends on how she played some dork that was drooling all over her. She probally already did that. well, at least she&#39;s talking about you. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_laughbounce.gif

I suggest you do something crazy to get back at her: dont try to make out with her sister, but her brother&#33; that would really make things akward for her at the dinner table.

[umdiddly]

you need to get reaquainted with your right hand, my friend.
leave the girl stuff boy stuff for post-puberty.

[umdiddly]

i had dreams like that... except instead of a school, i was in a giant stadium... and my pants were down.
... or something to that effect.. i dunno, i didnt get it all right because it was a dream http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/blink.gif




... i think there was some whipped cream involved too.

[Xollence]

Good thing about my nightmares is that I only remember them the first 10 seconds I wake up.

[Kagari]

You&#39;re clearly too young and clueless to persue a relationship.


I&#39;d offer you advice, but judging by how you type, and the way that the situation you described played out, it just seems like you&#39;re not completely sure of what it means to want, or date, a girl.

Perhaps you should forget about it, learn how to download porn and wait a few years. Trust me, you have all of high school to figure out how shitty the dating world is...don&#39;t be to eager. You&#39;ll just get hurt before your due time.

[Musclebobbuffpants]

I had a dream las night about her............. last night 2 of my friends from school (just school friends they dont come over or talk on the phone with me) they prank called me last night because I beat one of them at arm wrestling, and in the dream they were talking to the girl that I like and then I start to talk to my friend and I say &quot; That was a nice prank you guys did&quot; or something like that.... and then the girl that I like said &quot;It was just a prank, just because I thought u looked good before this was all a prank and I never liked u&quot; ....... I know I didnt get it all right because it was a dream http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/blink.gif

[umdiddly]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (umdiddly @ Jan 16 2004, 11:25 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> you need to get reaquainted with your right hand, my friend.
leave the girl stuff boy stuff for post-puberty. </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
this is sound advice.. take it to heart, and your troubles will be absolved.

[Power PMV]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (umdiddly @ Jan 17 2004, 10:23 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> </div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (umdiddly &#064; Jan 16 2004, 11:25 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> you need to get reaquainted with your right hand, my friend.
leave the girl stuff boy stuff for post-puberty. </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
this is sound advice.. take it to heart, and your troubles will be absolved. </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
LOL, check www.sexylosers.com and learn from Mike http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/laugh.gif

[Musclebobbuffpants]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (VagabondLBD @ Jan 16 2004, 05:57 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Stand outside her house and hold up a boombox playing peter gabriel music............. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/ph34r.gif

Edit: wrong singer </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
heh, isnt that from that one south park episode from the new season?

[Vagabond]

Yeah they used it in that but it was originally from a crappy 80&#39;s teen movie called Say Anything. The funny thing about the south park version of it is that Stan uses the wrong song so it doesn&#39;t work.

[Elite Hentai]

He has a &quot;girlfriend&quot; that will never cheat on him. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/laugh.gif

[Power PMV]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Elite Hentai @ Jan 18 2004, 02:40 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> He has a &quot;girlfriend&quot; that will never cheat on him. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/laugh.gif </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
LOL, so true

[Musclebobbuffpants]

I just felt like bumping this old ass topic with some updates.

My friend(who is a girl) asked her if she liked anyone and she said &quot;not relly&quot; then she asked if she knew Stevie *****(the stars represent last name, i dont trust some people http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/blink.gif ) and she said &quot;no, why&quot; and my friend said &quot;just wondering&quot; and then she said &quot;describe him&quot; and she described me (height, hair colot and she said that I opened her locker for her http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_gap.gif ) and then my friend said that I liked her and then she said &quot;Oh, Stevie, I know him, I dont like him like that&quot; ......... some good things and some bad things..... she doesnt like me like that, but then she doesnt like anyone else (so i might have a chance with her http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_dribble.gif ) and now she knows my last name and she looks at me alot more ever since then http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_laughbounce.gif ..... last week when we did some writting test (this is after my friend told her that I liked her) they put us in classes by our last name (A-B went to one room, C-E went to another, ECT.) and we have the same first letter in our last name. And I knew that she was gonna be in there the day before that and I was pretty excited. So when I walk in there I see her and then I sat down where I was supposed to sit..... and I was pretty nervous so I had to go take a walk around the school, which takes about 1 minute, and then I sat down and I was facing to the left, my whole body was pointing to the left and then when I turned to face the front, I saw that she was sitting right next to me&#33;&#33;&#33;&#33; It was pretty suprising..... and it has been like 3 weeks in a row that something happens when shes wearing her JROTC uniform (which I will mention more in a minute), I starred at her alot when her head was down after she got done with the test. And I found out alot more about her than I used to know, one was her middle name http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/smile.gif .... and I found out that my friend asked her out last year (who is a year younger than me and one grade under) and she said no and I didnt know her last year and he said that she was in the same grade as him last year but she got put up a grade because of her age.... and this after school tutoring thing that he goes to, he said that she comes in there sometimes and he said that she said that to someone in there and he over heared and she also said that she wasnt smart at all (so she is kinda hard on herself) and then the guy asked &quot;then why are u in the 8th grade&quot; and she said because of her age... kinda hard on herself. So im gonna start going to tutoring so I might see her in there and I can help her with her homework&#33;&#33; And the thing about the JROTC uniform (which she looks relly cute in) for the past 3 weeks, when she is wearing that, something happens, 2 weeks ago she sat in front of me in an assembly and the week after that (1 week from today) she sat next to me in that writting test and then today, I was just standing by her in traffic (we were waiting for people to go upstairs so we could go upstairs) I was late for class because of that, but it was worth it http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_dribble.gif

so thats pretty much all of the updates..... sorry if this shit bores u http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_jumpon.gif

[villin]

Dude, I really think you need to back off. From what you have posted she isn&#39;t into you at all in that way.

On the plus side, when you do get a girlfriend, you will see alot more girls taking an interest in you. I don&#39;t know why they like guys who are already involved with someone else but I can assure you they do. A couple of months ago I was at a party with my girlfriend when this chick came up to me and sat on my lap and started rubbing my chest. My girlfriend was sitting next to me and she didn&#39;t appreciate this at all. I found out later that the girl was the sister of one of my girlfriends&#39; friends and knew that Cassy and I were going out. Similar situations have happened quite a few times before and after that time. For some reason my girlfriend blames me even though I always pay little or no interest in the other girl. I would never consider cheating because I think its a pretty pathetic and classless thing to do. If there are any females reading this please let us poor guys know why this type of thing happens.

Sorry I went a little off topic but I had a little incident last night with my sister&#39;s friend who thought it would be a good idea to suggest a threesome to my girlfriend. Once again I was somehow to blame eventhough I wasn&#39;t there when it happened and have probably not even seen the girl for at least two weeks. God damn I don&#39;t understand. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mad.gif

[Musclebobbuffpants]

how can u tell that she&#39;s not into me at all?

[littlecooldude]

Oh man, ok; I deem this thread, the girl problems thread. Yeah, so if you have a problem getting a girl, need a place to vent, ect... do it here. (I&#39;m doing this so there aren&#39;t multiple threads like this) If you think that the people posting here are total losers, then ok, that&#39;s your opinion, just stop reading the post.

My suggestions:

@Musclebobbuffpants: She likes you as a friend, that we know, but she&#39;s not really interested in going out with you. If you ask her out now, you dead in the water. I&#39;m going to give you your options.
1) Just sit there and oggle her everyday, and stay her friend (which is sometimes the best move)
2) Go up to her when she is alone, or pull her aside, and tell exactly how you feel. Tell her you can&#39;t think straight everytime she is anywhere near you. Her reactions will be as follows:
a) Dafuck? OMG, I can&#39;t believe you like me. End of all friendship
b) Ah that&#39;s sweet, but I don&#39;t really want to go out with you. Lets stay friends (there is a 50/50 chance she will either completely forget about it, or it will change the mood of your friendship, which isn&#39;t that hot honestly)
c) Ah, how kind. Say, do you want to go out to a movie some time. (Or something along those lines)
d) Speachless (in which you suggest going to the movies sometime)
That&#39;s all your options... 2. No more. Either you risk friendship and ask, or play safe, and never touch. Life&#39;s a bitch

@villin: Dude, I get this all the time.... well sorta. My best friend&#39;s girlfriend decides that sometimes it would be better to hit on me, RIGHT NEXT TO HER BOYFRIEND&#33; I&#39;m like d00d&#33;&#33;1&#33;, number 1, I don&#39;t like you; number 2, you boyfriend is right there. This is not quite what your talking about, but I think they are connected. In your case, once they realize that your going out with someone, they know your interested, not to mention, they might here about how &#39;romantic/sweet&#39; you are. I don&#39;t know. I&#39;m a guy. I&#39;ve come to the conclusion that we will never understand how girls think.... ever.

My only issue, is that there aren&#39;t enough hot girls at my school. I don&#39;t ask for much. You know, just maybe more than, hmmm.... 3&#33;

[rEkKaShInObI]

wow man, it took a while for u to get enough balls to tell her. so what happened next?

[Uzumaki Naruto]

man is it just me or does anyone else find it hard to tell a girl that u like them, anyways, there this girl that ive know since grade skewl and weve become bestfreinds, but the thing is that i really like her but i dont kow if she likes me and that i might get rejected, how should i tell her that i like her, i mean dam man ive had this crush for her ever since grade skewl but i dont wanna feel all mushy about it bc i cant stop thinking abuot her well the only time i dont is when im watching anime so anyone have anytips on telling a child hood freidn that u like her

[hiddenpookie]

stop in the name of love&#33;&#33;&#33; its all about giveing the gurl u love a hug&#33;&#33;&#33;

[rEkKaShInObI]

As ive seen in the past posts, if you cant help, <span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>DONT</span>

IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY, SHUT THE H*LL UP&#33;&#33;

courtesy of rekkashinobi

[Musclebobbuffpants]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (littlecooldude @ Feb 18 2004, 09:10 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Oh man, ok; I deem this thread, the girl problems thread. Yeah, so if you have a problem getting a girl, need a place to vent, ect... do it here. (I&#39;m doing this so there aren&#39;t multiple threads like this) If you think that the people posting here are total losers, then ok, that&#39;s your opinion, just stop reading the post.

My suggestions:

@Musclebobbuffpants: She likes you as a friend, that we know, but she&#39;s not really interested in going out with you. If you ask her out now, you dead in the water. I&#39;m going to give you your options.
1) Just sit there and oggle her everyday, and stay her friend (which is sometimes the best move)
2) Go up to her when she is alone, or pull her aside, and tell exactly how you feel. Tell her you can&#39;t think straight everytime she is anywhere near you. Her reactions will be as follows:
a) Dafuck? OMG, I can&#39;t believe you like me. End of all friendship
http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/cool.gif Ah that&#39;s sweet, but I don&#39;t really want to go out with you. Lets stay friends (there is a 50/50 chance she will either completely forget about it, or it will change the mood of your friendship, which isn&#39;t that hot honestly)
c) Ah, how kind. Say, do you want to go out to a movie some time. (Or something along those lines)
d) Speachless (in which you suggest going to the movies sometime)
That&#39;s all your options... 2. No more. Either you risk friendship and ask, or play safe, and never touch. Life&#39;s a bitch
</td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
I did option 2 and she didnt say anything much..... and I was planning to ask ehr out but then I wanted to do that later......DAMN http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mad.gif but I plan to ask her if my friend told her that I liked her and then ask her if that is why she looks at me more http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/mf_laughbounce2.gif

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> wow man, it took a while for u to get enough balls to tell her. so what happened next?</td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>

It only took 2 weeks.... well I didnt wanna tell her that I liked her from the first day I liked her... so it was like a week to get them balls to do it. All of the other girls that I liked, I never told them that I liked them, and then there is this girl that I have liked since 6th grade and then when I started talking to the girl I like now, all of my feelings from the first girl that I liked went right to the girl that I like now....

[TeLeKiNeSiS]

just go on and grab her, hug her, then kiss her. &lt;-- dont take my advice

[villin]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (TeLeKiNeSiS @ Feb 19 2004, 12:29 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> just go on and grab her, hug her, then kiss her. &lt;-- dont take my advice </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
If that doesn&#39;t work you could tell her that your favorite activity is eating pussy and you think she probably has a pretty tasty bearded clam. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/dry.gif

[Power PMV]

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (villin @ Feb 18 2004, 10:33 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> </div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (TeLeKiNeSiS &#064; Feb 19 2004, 12:29 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> just go on and grab her, hug her, then kiss her. &lt;-- dont take my advice </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
If that doesn&#39;t work you could tell her that your favorite activity is eating pussy and you think she probably has a pretty tasty bearded clam. http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/dry.gif </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'>
LOL, this thread is so pointless. Muscle, young grasshoper wait until you grow up http://www.gotwoot.net/forum/html/emoticons/wink.gif

[Krbadass]

Answered.. and i see no reason to let this go further